When thinking of the word small, I seem to get something negative in my head. That is too small for me to wear, that is to small of a job for me to do. Small people... etc, etc. The list goes on. Then I started thinking what if small was positive?? What a concept, so let me explain.
It is the small things that make a marriage. It is in the every day minuta (sp) of marriage that the small things end up to big things. And making a marriage last. It is the quick kiss goodbye in the morning, a short hug on the way in or out, it is the I love you in passing in the hallway. Those are all small things that done on a daily basis add up to something very big.
It is the small things that make a house a home: A small dinner for two, a small picture on the wall, a small bouquet sitting on the table. Those are the small things that make a home.
The small things in raising a child: Stopping to play cars for 10 minutes... such a short time out of a busy day, stopping to take a deep breathe and be patient when he has just played ring toss with your eggs, and the twenty seconds it takes to give him a big hug for no reason. The small things are what will define and make him a young man someday.
So it is the small things that make a person happy. Not how much money you spend, not how much stuff you accumulate, it is the small gestures and I love you's that make something BIG.
Char, you are so right. It seems the older, or shall I use the word mature, we get the more we realize that "stuff" isn't what makes us happy, it's the small things.
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Miss Mindy
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